Saturday, June 10, 2006

Would you bend the rules?

Sarah was Palestinian, Christian, 67 and single again. This was courtesy a process of familial attrition which started when her family fled Haifa for the Lebanon after the Jews moved into the Arab areas of Haifa. The family settled (if you want to call it that) in one of the refugee camps in East Beirut. Her father died soon after the move, though I don't quite remember how. Her husband and eldest son were tortured and killed by Samir Geagea's Phalange when they attacked the camp during the Civil War. She fled with her daughters across the Green Line to Muslim West Beirut, where she found more kindness than she had with her fellow Christians. Towards the end of the civil war, their home (donated by the PLO, if I remember correctly) was hit by a suction bomb from an Israeli warship. One of her daughters died immediately, the other a month later, in hospital. She remained in Beirut until the end of the war, with her son and daughter-in-law. Through a series of moves I didn't have the time to track, what remained of the family found themselves in Jenin (of all places) in the late 90s. They were in Jenin in 2002. To cut her long story short, the son died. Sarah and her daughter-in-law came over to the UK soon afterwards. The daughter-in-law, during the last of a long series of breakdowns, killed herself a year after arrival.

Sarah had been granted asylum ('I'm Christian, so.......', she said sadly, by way of explanation. Whatever. Thank God). The problem was accomodation. She'd been put up in a series of grotty, dangerous hostels where her neighbours included the odd crack addict, pimp and knife-wielding extortionist. Sarah, throughout her years of suffering and exile, had managed to keep herself defiantly middle class. She'd worked as a secretary for a few years after coming to England, and had some money. This was a matter of great pride to her. It also made her a prime target in the hostels. Now she was too old and too sick to work. But since she was not a priority, Housing kept her at the bottom of the list. She didn't have a ghost of a chance of getting a proper flat anytime soon. Rather than live in a hostel, she's been relying on the kindness of a succession of friends, mostly people from her church.

Sarah had arthritis and depression. She'd been depressed for years, and the idea of treating it with a pill or therapy had been given up a long time ago. The idea that this woman's demoralization could be reduced to a diagnosis was as ludicrous as it was useless.

The only thing that could make her life a bit more bearable was a flat.

As the social workers and doctors involved in her care, we could spin her situation in such a way that she'd become a priority for housing. The question is, should we?

After all, she's just an old, unemployed, sponging asylum seeker.

8 Comments:

Blogger bendinggender said...

yes.
but my guess is there are so many cases like this. deciding between people when there are finite resources must be so very tough.
also, if depression is quite entrenched, would getting a flat help, but would depression then get latched on to some other focus?
my reply to your question is still yes. but i am also curious about the depression bit, having seen it happen at close quarters.

Tuesday, June 13, 2006  
Blogger nevermind said...

depression is a simplistic, reductionistic concept. it's functionally efficient, so it's useful. which is why reducing this woman to 'resistant depression' is so useless. don't think you can do much for her though, unless you bring her family back. improving the quality of her life is much more achievable, no? like giving morphine to someone with cancer.

but she's the sort of person the tabloids so casually dismiss as 'another asylum seeker'. i mean, the phrase is almost a term of abuse in this country.

Tuesday, June 13, 2006  
Blogger nevermind said...

hi anon, welcome. and thanks:)

Tuesday, June 13, 2006  
Blogger Dew Drops said...

it is sad when your destiny depends on someone elses whims and fancies ;(

Wednesday, June 14, 2006  
Blogger bendinggender said...

i mean, the phrase is almost a term of abuse in this country.

it isn't 'almost'. it is.

Wednesday, June 14, 2006  
Blogger nevermind said...

dd,indeed.

nikita, i think there are more nice people out there than we think. or maybe you're right.

Wednesday, June 14, 2006  
Blogger lg said...

it would be nice to give this lady some quality of care for the remainder of her days, and i do believe it would go a long way to assuaging what she has gone thru thus far in her life; but yeah she is no more (or less) deserving than the thousands of other poor souls just trying to live a normal life by fleeing to the first world. we have same problem here in Oz - we just label them queue-jumpers/dirty refos and lock 'em up in the desert - it makes me sick.

Thursday, June 15, 2006  
Blogger nevermind said...

yeah, i know;-/ used to work for an australian chap who wanted to do the same thing here. we didn't er, quite get along. he's still around, but a few years of being here (and getting told off) seems to have toned him down a bit.

Wednesday, June 28, 2006  

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